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How a single person reacts to the society-gives him the positive/negative outlook!
Just his partners or his community can help him to be more colorful in the society but maintaining mentality is mere a personal thing. Ex. You can not be a responsible person/caring person/kind person if you do not have a community around you to receive and react your good activities and give comments on your attitudes. A person can not develop his outlook within a day or two. He needs to gain more and more experience from the society day by day. Even a prisoner- (think a murderer) can motivate his good qualities and become a popular person someday. But you need courage and ambition.

take small steps:
1. plan your day.
2. keep to the plan.
3. cut out unwanted or insignificant tasks out of the plan (these distract and slow one down).
4. repeat religiously.

You can alter your habits around these 4 points like working out, entertainment, sleep schedules, etc.

So irrespective of being single or with a partner or a group, the above 4 steps should get one on track. btw, if the group or partner seem to distract you, its your choice to be distracted

Love and respect and have confidence in yourself in the first place. If you do that you show this to the world and you'll get positive reactions.

kim yong wrote:

I noticed a lot of people have very positive outlook and attitude.
How do they maintain it?

mmmm... is it easier to maintain good state of mind when you are single or when you are with someone or when you are with a bunch of people?

keep me positive!  give me some tips!

Hi Kim, 

1). Positive outlook and attitude come only and only from real success, not from wishful thinking (as a malfunction of the human brain, wishful thinking may be very subtle and work against you without you knowing it... )
You asked: How do they maintain it?
I reply: Success breeds success. Amen.

2). If you are a genius, one must be alone (he will be alone anyway because that's the way of the EXTREMELY creative person).
If he is like all most other persons, he will be like them and get results like them.

3). I can tell you much, much more but we shall end up fighting each other with the fists. 

cris4ang wrote:

take small steps:
1. plan your day.
2. keep to the plan.
3. cut out unwanted or insignificant tasks out of the plan (these distract and slow one down).
4. repeat religiously.

You can alter your habits around these 4 points like working out, entertainment, sleep schedules, etc.

So irrespective of being single or with a partner or a group, the above 4 steps should get one on track. btw, if the group or partner seem to distract you, its your choice to be distracted

Hello Cris, 
Yes, it's better to have a plan than no plan at all.
However, I see so many folks who go to church, diet, jog to keep healthy, donate to the poor, behaving like nice neighbors, take vitamins, yet they have no special results.
It seems being nice keeps someone out of trouble but does not automatically propel him to success.

I see so many folks taking a rest on week-ends and talk big, but then they are back into the mincemeat machine on Mondays morning going back to work, proof that they say one thing and do another thing.
What was the rest and big talk about if it produced nothing more than ordinariness?

A fool with a plan will never achieve what a great man without a plan already achieved.   

kim yong wrote:

I noticed a lot of people have very positive outlook and attitude.
How do they maintain it?

mmmm... is it easier to maintain good state of mind when you are single or when you are with someone or when you are with a bunch of people?

keep me positive!  give me some tips!

Hello Kim Yong,

As per me if someone is natural and do what he feels but not hurting others gives him a positive outlook and in attitude i dont believe....once you know yourself thoroughly than it doesnot matter you are single or with someone or with bunch of people....your state of mind will be positive....

Regards,
anil