My friend, your tone and plea for information and advise comes across as though, your main objective is to get her out of Ghana, more than a desire to get married happily ever after. Because of the abuse of privileges and immigration protocols, stringent laws and guidelines are put in place to curb abuse. The onus rest on you to prove to the embassy how genuine your request is. It shall not be through public opinion nor individual experience. Every case is treated on its own merit. Wish you and your intended spouse the best.