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GuestPoster114477

Ok,so I’ve been in a relationship with a Moroccan man for 2 years.It was a dream of mine to have a house in Morocco and so I bought one in a rural area….in his name in the January,I had come and go from the uk and he took care of the renovations.By the summer he was drinking and womanising ever time I went away probably using the money I was sending for building work…it all went to his head.I realised I’d made a big mistake and have got the house in my name and am applying for change of use ie AVA which is going well but is expensive and slow.

when the house was in his name he wasn’t so good to me but since it’s been in mine he’s changed for the better,however,when ever I go back to the uk he immediately gets drunk and tells people he’s glad I’m gone but when I’m there he’s really lovely.I’m finding it confusing…who is he?

is he just doing me lip service because he likes the life style and he’s glad when I’m gone but he seems very geneiune or is he a binge drinker,I don’t know exactly but it’s emotionally exhausting!

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Vakil

I’m sorry you’re going through this. It sounds like he may not be following through as you’d hoped. It might be best to have an open and honest conversation with him about everything on your mind.


If he isn’t contributing or making an effort to work, it could be worth reconsidering financial support to see how he responds and what steps he takes. Unfortunately, relationships like this do happen, but there are also many genuine people in Morocco who approach things differently.


The most important thing is to trust your instincts. Speak with him, share your concerns, and assess his response to make the best decision for yourself.


I hope this helps, and I wish you clarity and peace moving forward.


Best wishes

AE

GuestPoster114477

Thank you

the thing is that he denies everything and lies.I know he drinks as soon as I’m gone.I think he has a problem

Vakil

Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately sounds like you need to figure this out personally with him. There is not much anyone can do here on this personal issue but you could try showing him the evidence if you have any and talking to the family about the situation. Sorry can’t be much more help on the matter.

GuestPoster114477

Yes I realised that nobody can help soon after writing it and tried to delete it but couldn’t!

sgrab

@Sal23 Best thing to do is protect your finances. Keep your bank account separate and putting the house in your name was a good step. How did you get him to agree to that?!

Even if you continue with the relationship at least you’ll protect yourself that way.

jaebee

If you give him the chance he ( not every Moroccan man but certainly this one!) will suck every last penny out of you. Play the game, use condoms if you have sex. The less he knows about your person life and affairs outside of when you see him the better. Otherwise, you’ll be a glutton for punishment.

Damara Mamou

@jaebee

I really dont know what i will do every second i try to call him because im very worried but his phone said the correpondent i call is busy even i every minute its killing me i wake up every minute and cry

muzzichuzzi

Time to drop him out.

Damara Mamou

@muzzichuzzi

Thank you for the comments guys..😭

Andre Petion

@muzzichuzzi Going to Agadir for the divorce next week. Finger crossing!

Lisarzahn57

@Sal23

Get him away from you...I have lived in Morocco for 5 years and had yet to meet a decent man there...I am American...and am so tired of getting scammed..I no longer date anyone there...

Lisa

Lisarzahn57

@jaebee

Very very true!

Lisarzahn57

@Sal23

I am in fes if you ever want to have coffee!

muzzichuzzi

@Lisarzahn57


better chances of dating someone decent residing in Morocco who’s a foreigner in my honest opinion.