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You are seeking an advice whether you to have a relationship with a separated lady is fine or not? It depends on the complexity of that lady's past relationship and her family (whether she has kids etc). I believe you are an adult and can judge whether you can swim or not while getting into deep water. Danger is always there with a person (male or female) who had a broken relationship in past. But if you both understand and care each other's feelings and ready to give & take attitude then should be able to turn the table in your favor. Good luck.

cheers Surya2k !!! grt advice ! you are totally correct & mature in your outlook ! The problem we face is unfortunately her ex wishes money and threatening actions !apparently the police do not want to know about it !

You are an °µÍø½ûÇø living in a country which has large criminal records, corruption is in rampant and law n order is not that great. Typically what you see in a developing country. When her ex is threatening for money it's apparently you won't say is the only problem cause this will be life Long problem (till you live in that country). Don't give money as these kind of people won't settle in one installment (of your money). So, you should know that playing with fire is not something you can get away of it. Only solution is amicably settle down both if you else where (if you both want to continue this relationship further). Good luck you both .

cheers ! thank you for your input ! have made decision { although very difficult } to amicably part ways and move on ! thanks again !