I've lived in PR since 2017 with my daughter (now 11), you couldn't pay me enough to living in SJ proper. We live in Palmas Del Mar where rental prices have skyrocketed this year but hopefully they have peaked and started to normalize. A house with a lawn can run anywhere from 2-8K depending on size and proximity to the beach/view. Then there are villas, townhouses and condos as well. Palmas a private school and also has an amazing homeschool community, lots of youth activities like book, young entrepreneur, chess, running, hiking and surf clubs and equestrian, golf, tennis, pickleball. Its a great place to raise a family. The drive to SJ is not fun but if you have any flexibility on commute time its not too bad. Just try to get out before 3 on Friday! PR is strict about the mask and the community is pretty hostilely divided over vaccinating which bears mentioning as we don't know how long this covid crisis is going to last. I will add this, PR is not the U.S. in many ways, if you are come expecting the conveniences of NY, you will be unhappy here. It takes all day to do things that you are used to taking an hour. A doctors appointment may take months to schedule and all day to execute. Making an appointment might necessitate help from a friend who speaks spanish. Grocery stores that have everything you need or even consistent fresh food are a problem so get a Costco membership. On the other hand, if you want a different pace, a focus on family and the outdoors, this is your place.
I am happy here, but I came "here" because its not "there".