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Khalidakhanssas

Assalamuwalaikum !!i
  I am Khalida ,i am not able to take a decision can u plz help me !! I have got an opportunity to work for a school in jubail -- but they are asking me to come alone !! But is it safe for a single women !! I am very pious person !! I don't want to come with out a mehram but they are not accepting !! And also the salary which they are offering is only 5K not satisfied !! Plz tell me should I go ahead ???? Or wait for a better opportunity?!

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Ali_N

If you're not satisfied with the pay, don't join cause later you'll start regretting it!!!

FahadFahadFahad

Go ahead! and if opportunity rises, take it!

mubashirse

Hi Khalida, let's take it in this way:

First thing is -----> verify the school, check its background and get satisfied.

Your cost of living (in case they are not providing you transportation, accommodation etc.)
1. Cost of living around 1000 SAR per month with attachment of good family flat (single room with toilet)
2. Cost of food for one person is aprox. 800 SAR
3. Cost of traveling Home-School-markets etc. approx. 800 if your home is near school.
4. Misc. expenses (like buying something for use, mobile card/internet etc.)  approx. 400
total roughly : 3000
You can squeeze your budget here also by limiting your expenses and it all depends upon you.
You can now decide whether its affordable or suitable for you or not..
It is true that people are living here by earning 1000-2000 SAR only but they live hand to mouth and miserably.

I am living in Jubail with my family.. Its not very expense... but it is expensive. You can contact me in case you need any other guidance. Wish you best of luck.

Ehtesham

Khalidakhanssas wrote:

Assalamuwalaikum !!i
  I am Khalida ,i am not able to take a decision can u plz help me !! I have got an opportunity to work for a school in jubail -- but they are asking me to come alone !! But is it safe for a single women !! I am very pious person !! I don't want to come with out a mehram but they are not accepting !! And also the salary which they are offering is only 5K not satisfied !! Plz tell me should I go ahead ???? Or wait for a better opportunity?!


Verify this job and the school, they are weird. It is your personal decision to bring your husband as long as he has valid visa to enter.
One more thing, If they are interfering in your business today they will continue this when you arrive to work.
Also salary is too low as well.

salman1122

pagal ho ap ? 5k is good..dont worry about mehrum...single woman ..or any woman  are safe in saudi arabia...this prophet mohammed birth place..unkay saar zameen per namaz parna be nasseeb honi chaiya...and dont think too much...thinking will push u back ...bismillah bolke kadam uta do..and agar apko koi yaha per torture kia tho ...nhe karega agar kia tho ..u just call 999 ..he will take him up ..so dont worry ..and come and live happy...best of luck ..

Khalidakhanssas

Yes that is true but they say teaching industry offers u only that much for a fresher at a gulf country !! Is it true ?

mubashirse

In schools, yes as far as I know.

mubashirse

mubashirse wrote:

In schools, yes as far as I know.

Khalidakhanssas

Walaikumassalam ,Thank you salman !!
So is the city safe for women !!
Mujhe already job milchuka hai in noorain school its an Indian school CBSC board but daar lagraha hai !! Bacchoon ko chod ke vahaan anjaan sheher main !! Kuch  far relatives hai but still its scary !! Ur msg has boosted my spirit thank you !! In sha Allah let's see what Allah has written for me

Khalidakhanssas

Thank u !!
Actually they are providing me with accommodation and transport its just food that I need to take care of. And the name of the school is Noorain its a new school CBSC board and a branch of DPS  !! Could u plz help me verify if there is any such school in and around jubail plzzz !!

And one more important question is it safe for a single women to stay there !!

mubashirse

Khalidakhanssas wrote:

Thank u !!
Actually they are providing me with accommodation and transport its just food that I need to take care of. And the name of the school is Noorain its a new school CBSC board and a branch of DPS  !! Could u plz help me verify if there is any such school in and around jubail plzzz !!

And one more important question is it safe for a single women to stay there !!


I would try my best. Can you please send me some more details like area, street name, location, full name of school.. anything you know.

mubashirse

Khalidakhanssas wrote:

Thank u !!
Actually they are providing me with accommodation and transport its just food that I need to take care of. And the name of the school is Noorain its a new school CBSC board and a branch of DPS  !! Could u plz help me verify if there is any such school in and around jubail plzzz !!

And one more important question is it safe for a single women to stay there !!


If they are providing you accommodation and transportation, then you can subtract that amount as I gave you rough idea.
One thing more, (not disappointing you).. If you can live without your husband, then definitely you should take a move. I take it in this way, you must know the perks, pros and cons as well. Since you will come here, earn, save money .. this would be positive side and you have to sacrifice for your family.

Khalidakhanssas

Sure I'll do that but as of now I have not yet received my offer letter once I get that I shall send the address !! Thank u soo much !!

Khalidakhanssas

Yes u are absolutely right !! Not only my husband I should stay away from my little sons as well !! They told me that they would not give me family visa but they are offering my children Free school !! I'll have to py for the visa and tickets stuff I guess !! How does the visa work ?? How much should I pay and all ?? Any idea ???

mubashirse

It will be sponsored visa. Your visa charges and annual return ticket must be paid by them. even if you spend something in your home country for example medical expenses etc, you should reimburse from them.
If they give you family status (it does not cost them much) then it would be easy for you to invite your family here. In that case you can invite your family on your own expenses and later your husband can search job here. Try that way.. ask them to provide you family visa, and you will pay for family visa expenses later. If they agree, it would be great.